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There's always something fun to do, even when you don't have any friends.Take a walk around the mall, and check out what movies they're playing at the multiplex and if there are any worth seeing.Talk to other patrons while you're in a store, or buy yourself something new to wear, or a new video game.While the company of friends would be preferable, not having anyone to hang out with shouldn't depress you, because there are other ways to have fun alone.
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Steps
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Get a pet that can become your best friend! Make sure you are up to the commitment and responsibility that comes with it.
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Visit a library. Read some good books and join some reading groups.
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Create your own personal diary and write something in it every day.
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Find a large bookstore that also sells music albums. Spend time among others and listen to music from the headphones provided.Order a coffee at the cafe, find someone else who is alone and say hello.You might make a new friend this way.Ask your family members what their favorite bands are and try listening to your parents' old CDs.
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Go to the cinema. Enjoying a movie alone is great.No one talks during the show, anyway, so you won't feel uncomfortable.Buy some popcorn and something to drink, and enjoy the movie.
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Start walking for exercise. Walk the dog, sign up for a yoga class, or join a swim team.It's fun and you'll always be fit!Or just try doing some push-ups and push-ups.Dancing is also very rewarding.
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Take your laptop to a bookstore that offers an Internet connection. Contribute to WikiHow and register.Write an article about how to have fun without friends while finding friends in the WikiHow community.It could become a famous article and you could make your fortune thanks to WikiHow.
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Try to understand why you don't have any friends. Do you tend to cut other people off?Are you a bully?Are you considered a "nerd"?What do you do that keeps other people away?But don't be too hard on yourself.Many people simply don't have time to make friends, they are busy working, taking care of their family, or going to school.There may be nothing wrong with you, so don't get too upset.The world is quite complex these days, so not everyone wants to make new friends.
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Remember that there are many ways you can keep yourself busy. Don't just rely on people to make you happy.Find a hobby, become an artist, decorate pottery, visit museums, volunteer to be a guide.
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Watch television at home. (Don't look at it for too long as it hurts.One must always be moderate in everything.)
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Rent a movie to watch at home, make some popcorn and relax.
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Call a relative and talk about this and that. Talking to a family member and spending time with him/her can be a lot of fun.
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Go to the cinema with your parents. Yes, it may seem a little lame, but hey, they can be your friends too, especially if you don't have any others.
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Buy a console, such as an Xbox, Xbox 360, Playstation 3, or Nintendo Wii. (The Wii will also allow you to exercise during endless hours of fun and entertainment.)
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Listen to the radio. You can always find something interesting, whether it's a talk show, a news program, or the music charts of a local station.
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You write. Writing is very rewarding.You can write about any topic, from social issues to your personal experiences.It's also a great way to let off some steam about not having any friends.
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Sign up for one of the many social networks, such as MySpace, Facebook, or Google+.
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Do volunteer work. Volunteering is a very enriching experience.This could be helping an elderly neighbor or going to a homeless shelter.Find out what soup kitchens, retirement homes, churches, etc. are.of your area.You never know.You might even make some new friends while helping people in your neighborhood.
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Do household chores. Vacuum clean, fold laundry, wash your parents' car, or clean the bathroom if you're bored.
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Do sports. Go for a run, bowl, swim, go for a bike ride or a walk around the neighborhood.You could always make some new acquaintances along the way.
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Study. Finish all your homework, study a certain subject (especially if you have an exam soon!).Not only will you get better grades, but you might even find some new friends who need help with their homework!Advertising
Advice
- Remember that friendships will not always make you happy.Learn to be happy with yourself and alone.Then if some friendships are born, you can be happy about that too.
- Try to join a club that interests you.You may find friends with the same interests and you will be able to do something you like!
- Find a hobby that requires a lot of time.Go to a church you like, join a social or political club.You will have many opportunities to make friends.
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Warnings
- If you happen to meet people in chat or on social networks, be very careful not to provide any personal information that could harm you or anyone else.
- Stalking people because you don't have any friends is not the right way.
- Don't watch too much TV and don't overdo it with social networks.
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