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If you're looking for activities tied to a euphemistic meaning of "play alone," you'll have to do it elsewhere (let's be honest:It's not that hard to imagine, though.)On the other hand, if you're bored and can't find anyone to hang out with you, read these steps to learn how to pass the time by having fun on your own.
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Draw. Everyone has imagination, but not all of us are able to access it.One of the easiest ways to have fun on your own using your imagination is to sit down at a table with pens, paints, markers and start drawing.Make sure you have enough paper and don't hold back:keep drawing and drawing until you get something you like.Edit it, add details (and colors, if you've done something colorful), and keep going until you're satisfied.
- You don't have to show your doodles to anyone if you don't want to.And if you don't want to keep them, throw them away.
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Play with toy soldiers. Or with dolls or mini-football characters:any miniature is part of the play tradition of children all over the world and with good reason, it is a great way to pass the time when there is nothing to do.If you don't have any, you can buy them, build them, or use decorative thumbnails.Give each one a name and a title and build a story.Make a different entry for each and outline their personality traits.
- You can use a crumpled blanket or stacked books to create the "scenario" in which your characters move.For example, try to think of a lone marine who descends a wall made of books into a canyon in which he will be ambushed;perhaps a witch riding a broomstick can appear ready to save someone who is about to jump from a bridge.The possibilities are endless.
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Dance. You're alone, why not?Choose music, turn up the volume and start shaking.You'll be surprised at how much fun it is.Do something different by putting on music you'd never dance to (classical, for example) and try out some moves.Let your body express the sounds and emotions of the song – you'll also improve your mood, as well as getting some exercise.
- Before you go crazy, of course, check that the door is securely closed – unless you want to put on a show for those who live with you.While others try to open the door, you will be able to compose yourself and go back to your usual self.
- Forcing yourself to be serious again after dancing usually makes you laugh even more, but wasn't the point of having fun?
- Get as much space as you can before dancing.Once you start, it's easy to lose control of your body.
- Before you go crazy, of course, check that the door is securely closed – unless you want to put on a show for those who live with you.While others try to open the door, you will be able to compose yourself and go back to your usual self.
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Play solitaire games. Or even board games in single-person versions.The lonely the most famous is probably Klondike, a very simple card matching game.Others are the Pyramid and Spider.Aside from card games, you can also play alone with marbles, checkers and chess;obviously the challenge is limited, but the chances of learning and improving your strategy are high.You can also play skittles, darts or improve your pool technique, provided you have the necessary equipment.
- Playing skittles alone is easy, just make an X of skittles inside a circle and shoot from a certain distance trying to knock them down.It is a game suitable for closed places, if you have some space on the floor which must be free from objects and carpets.
- The loners that can be found on Wikipedia they are almost unlimited.Note that not all variations are explained.
- Card games like Magic or The Gathering and other similar games can be played on your own just like chess or checkers.Obviously, playing against others is more useful for testing your strategies.
- Another way to make the time pass quickly – and keep track of how much time passes – is to put on some music while you play.If for better or worse you have an idea of how long the album or playlist you listen to lasts, you will also have an idea of how long it passes.
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Play video games. Today more than ever there are video games in every home.Even if you don't have a console (like the Wii or PS3) to play, there are thousands of games available for PC and phone, many of which are suitable for a single player.Some give you the chance to challenge opponents online, others work better if you play in the company of friends (especially those into cars, motorbikes and fighting).Avoid the latter if you really want to play alone and focus on action-adventure or role-playing ones.
- Online you will find many games that you can play for free.Try Yahoo!Games for a wide selection of classic and recent titles, or onemorelevel.com for a smaller but curated list, easy to navigate and which includes lesser-known but still entertaining titles.
- Some online games allow you to unlock extra levels or features for a fee.If you're not 100% sure, though, don't pay anything.Remember, it's only ever a free game on the internet.
- Don't throw away old consoles.Many fun games were made for consoles like the NES, Sega Genesis, and the original PlayStation.These games – and the associated system that allows their use – can often be purchased for less than their original cost on street markets.
- Online you will find many games that you can play for free.Try Yahoo!Games for a wide selection of classic and recent titles, or onemorelevel.com for a smaller but curated list, easy to navigate and which includes lesser-known but still entertaining titles.
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Cultivate a hobby. If you have free time and no one to spend it with, why not build or do something fun?Try assembling an airplane or a car, or build a model rocket and launch it behind a school on the weekend.Some hobby shops sell kits for making robots, growing colored crystals in water, and doing a variety of other fun things.Most of these kits cost less than €25 and are a nice way to spend an afternoon.
- Other kits include sand work, jewelry and dream catcher making.Take a tour of the store and see what inspires you!
- You can also make your own “kit” by purchasing the essential parts and keeping them together.Try making your own favorite soap or bath salts, candles, patterned T-shirts (with decals or painting the fabric), or even wine (if you're old enough).
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Play sports on your own. With a ball it's easy:find a wall against which to bounce it from different angles, trying to hit it every time.You can perfect your shots on the court if no one else is using the hoop.Improve your free kicks or running with the ball at your feet or go back and forth from one point to another.
- You can also try less traditional sports.Try to keep the footbag in the air as much as you can, throw the Frisbee further or, if there is a designated area, play with horseshoes.
- If there is a place to practice, archery is a great sport that you can practice alone.The equipment is usually a bit expensive, but you shouldn't pay more than €100 for it, which is cheaper than for example some others sport.
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Explore. By car, bike or on foot, exploring can be fun to discover who lives around you.Choose a direction and go.For a more naturalistic experience, go to a wooded area and throw a Frisbee or baseball as far as you can.Follow it and find it again, repeating it until you have crossed the entire forest.
- Read the signs carefully.Some parks don't want you to walk outside of established paths.Always respect the rules.
- If you plan to go exploring outside the city you need to have a topographical map and a compass – and know how to use it.This way you will practice your sense of direction:It's easy and can save your life.
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Go downhill. Here's another popular pastime that kids everywhere love.By letting gravity do the work for you, you can enjoy the speed without trying too hard.If you live near a ski resort, buy a sled and go with that.If there's a park, find a hill and after lying down on your side, roll down onto the grass (make sure there's no dog waste, first).
- You can keep your bike or scooter going at full speed, but make sure no one is near or at the base of the hill, because it will take you longer to stop with one vehicle than, for example, with just your body.
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Visit places. Use a bike, car or public transport to visit places of interest and local beauty.Take a camera (or use your cell phone) and take photographs of the view or the details that strike you.Sometimes even walking along city streets can lead you to discover corners, gardens or houses that deserve a photograph.Try to write down where you've been each season and come back every 2-3 months to see how it's changed.
- To turn your tour into a game, note down any unique features you find (such as a flower or a four-leaf clover) in one spot and try to connect it to a photograph you took.If you have an eye for detail you could even spend months trying to make everything fit together.
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Observe people. One of the best ways to spend time outdoors is to sit on a bench near a passageway and people-watch.Look at how they are dressed, their faces and body language, but also the accessories they have and where they go.Try to add details to their lives, such as whether or not they wear funny socks at work or whether they like jazz.Turn them into characters in your mind.It's more fun than you think.
- You can also turn this activity into a game by following the same instructions as visiting the city.
- Don't stare at people.The goal is to go unnoticed so you can continue to have fun while people watching.If you make eye contact with someone, smile politely and look away.Consider bringing something to drink so you have something to focus on quickly.
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Explore. If you happen to be stuck on an afternoon of shopping with someone, excuse yourself by saying you want to look around and agree on a place and time to meet up again.Go away and find something else to do.Even when nothing seems interesting you can always find something to watch.Try reading nutrition labels or looking for particular brands in the supermarket, for example.
- Don't forget:you can too go out from the building and see what the back looks like.
- Make sure the person you are with understands that you will meet in a certain place at the appointed time.Ask her to repeat it to you to be sure.
- If you are small enough you can also use those play areas set up specifically in large centres, where children have fun with toy cars and other toys.Obviously, if you're a teen or older you won't have much fun.
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Use a portable console. Or a game on your mobile phone, the possibilities are countless.Be prepared by bringing something with you in case you get bored.If you can't find a good place to lean and play, check to see if there are benches outside the building you're in or chairs near the bathrooms or locker rooms.
- Just like with home consoles, don't forget that there are various older systems for portable gaming too, which can be purchased for just a few euros – you don't have to have the latest model to have fun.
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Advice
- Your imagination is your best friend when you're trying to find a way to entertain yourself.Read a book and/or watch a movie to help her.
- Plus, in addition to playing, you can work on developing a natural talent or hobby, such as playing an instrument, singing, or whistling.It's not really "playing" but it can still give a certain satisfaction.
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Warnings
- If you're bored, it can be tempting to create a bit of a stir in the shop:climbing on shelves, changing the place of things, mixing objects, pushing yourself on the trolley, etc.However, these sometimes fun activities can become dangerous, and the store staff will make every effort to stop you for your own safety – and you will also give the staff a headache.These people work hard to keep the store running smoothly:Don't make their lives hell just to make yours a little less boring.
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